Number #1 Hater

June 10, 2016

This is a curious one for me

Because I come across it all the time

And yet to this day, I have no clue why it occurs

Like I just don’t get why they hate

Why they wouldn’t support it

I am talking about partners,

The amount of women who come in and their partners show no support, no consideration, and just generally don’t do anything but complain about the process

It just boogles my mind

The person who is supposed to love you the most

Be in your corner

And only want the best for you, being your biggest opposition

Like let me put this into perspective for you

I had a women who signed up and I had to give her a refund because her husband said he would get a divorce if she didn’t get the money back

This women had finally decided to do something for herself to improve her life.

To make a healthy change and her husband decided she was being ridiculous

I even had one of my clients tell me that her husband was complaining about costs, and she simply turned to him and said how much does your heart medication cost?

I love this client, she is amazing.

She said that is what I am trying to prevent

To stay healthy and for the long term be happy and healthy.

So why would the one’s closest to you want to stop you from making the change?

The honest answer is that 9/10 its because they can’t find the will or the energy to make the change themselves

They can’t understand why you can do it and they can’t

And it’s sad

So my advice is take them with you

Do it as a couple

Find the middle ground and make that change together

Not only will it make the process easier

But it will make the whole thing more enjoyable

The more support you have around doing something difficult the more likely you are to succeed.

So that’s all I have for you today

Until next time,

Lachlan “Your #1 Fan” Farley


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