Number #1 Hater
June 10, 2016
This is a curious one for me
Because I come across it all the time
And yet to this day, I have no clue why it occurs
Like I just don’t get why they hate
Why they wouldn’t support it
I am talking about partners,
The amount of women who come in and their partners show no support, no consideration, and just generally don’t do anything but complain about the process
It just boogles my mind
The person who is supposed to love you the most
Be in your corner
And only want the best for you, being your biggest opposition
Like let me put this into perspective for you
I had a women who signed up and I had to give her a refund because her husband said he would get a divorce if she didn’t get the money back
This women had finally decided to do something for herself to improve her life.
To make a healthy change and her husband decided she was being ridiculous
I even had one of my clients tell me that her husband was complaining about costs, and she simply turned to him and said how much does your heart medication cost?
I love this client, she is amazing.
She said that is what I am trying to prevent
To stay healthy and for the long term be happy and healthy.
So why would the one’s closest to you want to stop you from making the change?
The honest answer is that 9/10 its because they can’t find the will or the energy to make the change themselves
They can’t understand why you can do it and they can’t
And it’s sad
So my advice is take them with you
Do it as a couple
Find the middle ground and make that change together
Not only will it make the process easier
But it will make the whole thing more enjoyable
The more support you have around doing something difficult the more likely you are to succeed.
So that’s all I have for you today
Until next time,
Lachlan “Your #1 Fan” Farley